The most important duty of a Muslim is to inculcate fear of Allah,
implant His love in his/her heart and to promote attachment to Him (
TAALUQ BILLAH)! This means that a
Muslim should live and die only for Allah, and his worship and
sacrifices should be only for Allah,
"(
Say O Muhammad (uwbp), surely my
prayer and my sacrifice and my life, and my death are all for Allah the
cherisher of the Worlds". Qur'an 6:163)
To strengthen your relationship with Allah during Ramadan, the following
spiritual exercises are important:
1)
Salaah - (prayers) -
Fard/Nawafil [Compulsory/Voluntary]: Apart from the required obligatory
(fard) Prayer, other sunnah and nawafil (voluntary) prayers should be
offered. as is reported in a hadith (saying of the Prophet 9uwbp):
(a) Abu Hurairah reported that Allah's Messenger (uwbp) used to exhort (his companions) to observe prayer (at
night) during Ramadan, without commanding them (to deem it to be obligatory and said '
He who observed (tarawih
prayer) during the night of Ramadan, because of faith and seeking reward
(from Allah) all his previous sins will be forgiven.' (Mishkat)
(b) Jabir reported Allah's Messenger(.uwbp) as saying "
When anyone of
you observes the prayers in the mosque, he should earmark some share of
his prayers for the house, for Allah would bless his house because of
his prayers." (Muslim)
Apart from tarawih, other nawafil [voluntary] prayers are recommended, especially
tahajjud (late night prayer). Maulana Maududi has stated "But make it a
point that you offer the nafl [voluntary] prayers indoors and in
secrecy so that your personal attachment with Allah might increase, and
sincerity of purpose develop in you. Show of nafl or tahajjud prayers
gives way to hypocrisy and self-importance which is detrimental to
sincere belief".
(2)
Saum (fasting):- This is a continuous, rigorous, spiritual,
discipline and self control, that trains one for perfect and cheerful
obedience of Allah. It strengthens one's faith in Allah and makes one
sincere, faithful and obedient to His commands. It enables us to be the
master and not the slave of our desires and appetites - thus we develop
confidence. Fasting also develops a strong sense of nearness and
closeness to Allah and of His presence everywhere. The Prophet (uwbp)
has said:. "T
here are two pleasures for the fasting person, one at the
time of breaking the fast and the other at the time when he meets his
Lord, then he will be pleased because of his fasting".
(3)
Lailat-ul-Qadr and Itikaf [The night of Power and spiritual retreat to mosque]: Ayesha related that "
When the last ten
days of Ramadan began, the Prophet (uwbp) use to prepare himself for
prayer. He stayed awake throughout the night, and also wakened the
members of his family."
Ayesha also relates how the Prophet (uwbp) spent these last ten days of
Ramadan: " -... t
he Prophet (uwbp) observed 'Itikaf and went into
seclusion during the last ten days of Ramadan and he advised the
people to look for the night of power in the odd nights of the last
seven days of (Ramadan)". (Muslim).
(4)
Zikr-i-llah [remembrance of Allah]:
Mujaddid Alf Thani explains:
"If a person is fortunate enough to perform a good deed in the month of
Ramadan, the blessedness of it will not depart from him for the whole
year and if this month is spent in distress and frustration the
danger is that the whole year will pass for him in the same way."
The most appropriate way to remember Allah, taught to us by the Holy
Prophet (uwbp) is to try and learn by heart, as many duas as possible, fully grasping
their meanings fl and reciting them often keeping the meanings present
in your mind. It is reported in Tirmidhi, that the Holy Prophet
(uwbp) has said that Allah will not refuse the duas of three persons
- the righteous and just Imam, the oppressed one, and the fasting
person.
(5)
Infaq-fi-sabilillah:(spending in the way of Allah)
Ibn Abbas related that the Prophet(uwbp) was the most generous of all
men, but in the month of Ramadan, when Gibrael, used to come to him, his generosity knew no bounds. It is also related in Bukhari and
Muslim that during the day of Ramadan, the Prophet (uwbp) appeared
to be faster than the wind in acts of charity and benevolence. Hence,
acts of charity, obligatory as well as nawafil, (to the extent of
one's means), should be , continuously done. It is related in Mishkat
7:i:iii - This is a month in which the sufferings of the poor and their
hunger must be attended to, Many Muslims use Ramadan for payment of
zakaat [charity], which in itself is a purification, becomes ten time its worth
in the sight of Allah, during this Month.
(6)
Preference for Aakhirah:
Since our eternal abode is the hereafter, we must in our spiritual
development give due consideration and preference to this fact and try
to develop a conscious preference for Al-Aalchirah [hereafter].
(a) By studying the verses of Holy Qur'an that relate to Aakhirah and to
fully internalize their spirit and meanings.
(b) Study traditions of the Holv Prophet (uwbp) concerning life and
death and the world to come.
(c) Pay some freque6t visits to graveyards to meditate on your final
physical end, based on the advice of the Rasul (uwbp), and to contemplate
your future journey.
(d) Consider your worldly possessions and worldly interests and find out
how often these things distract. or succeeded in attracting you away from getting closer to Allah. Reassess the
importance of your worldly gains (ni'amah) as amanah (trust) from Allah for your future in Al-Aakhirah.
(e) Finally check out the people whom you choose to keep as friends
and companions- are they materialistically inclined or do they prefer piety and gains of the hereafter over this
world? Keep friends with the latter of the two categories.
By involving ourselves in the above mentioned spiritual exercises, one
can develop an everlasting attachment with Allah and enjoy His
companionship.:
"When My servants ask you concerning Me, I am indeed
close to them. I listen to the prayer of every crier who calls on Me-. Let them also with a will
listen to My call, and believe, in Me, that they may walk in the right way". (2:186)
The Muslims during Ramadan can now evaluate his consistency and
commitment to Allah and his din [way of life].